We’re all mistakes
The universe was an accident
Happy or otherwise.
I regret my tattoos less than
My parents regretted my existence
Both a lesson in forgiveness
Too easily forgotten.
My Gran lived sparingly
Windowsills, table-tops bare.
Her cupboards harbouring
Cutlery, tins and crockery
Rationed for just us three.
But if me or my sister tripped up
We’d scuttle the concrete steps
To stand at Gran’s door
Smiles welling like the blood
To receive
Her only willing offering:
A plaster.
Fixed like a medal,
Patterned to depict our particular valour:
Stars, cartoons, aliens.
Scraped knees were holy at Gran’s.
So when dad was screaming like mum from Hell
Fuckin mistakes the both of yer
Yeah, we felt like a bruise
A graze of a body
But that made us pretty
Pretty cool
Look this one’s got a race car on!
Tattoos seek the ugly,
The regrettable out of every corner of us
And kiss it until its blushing beautiful.
They give mistake another name
They’re medals,
My Gran giving me plasters from the grave.
‘Cos christ am I scratched up
I don’t want to cover up
With any temporary denial
Make up like I’ve not got
Ugly busting through my skin.
No, make me dangerous,
Colour me in
With my grateful
My- I’m trying
Here, look at my scaffolding.
Some people only needed plasters,
Content to keep themselves
In albums, the internet, notebooks
Or just neatly in the minds of others.
But my rough edges don’t fit so clean.
I’ve been cutting things out of books
And magazines and posters
Ever since I can remember
I’ve felt like a cut-out.
I just want to be collaged
Down into my accidental existence.
I just want the sunlight stitched across my skin,
I want all my scars covered
With my own inked forgiveness.